You’re cooking pasta in the kitchen while your 6 year old is peacefully building with magnet tiles in the living room and your three year old is smushing playdough on the kitchen table. Suddenly, you hear the clatter of 67 tiles fall to the ground and see that the 3 year-old has traded the playdough destruction for something a little bit more…reactive. Hysterics level 10 ensue. Sound familiar at all? When this happens, if you’re anything like me, your first thought is “WHY!